So, I love my hairstylist. I've been seeing her for 4 years, so we've become comfortable with each other. The last time I went to see her (a couple months ago) she noticed that I'm getting more grey hair. Yes, I know! People may not notice it, but it's there! It's actually more white than grey. It's like highlights. lol. She covered it up and today I noticed that they were coming back!
I know why I'm getting grey hair. First reason, genetics....my great grandma had white hair at an early age, and it's run it's course to me. Second reason, TEIGEN! Oh yes, he's so sweet! He's perfect for babysitters (thank goodness) and he's pretty good with dad. But when it comes to me, his mother-who's done everything for him, he's a monster. He can be good for me a lot of the time. But the rest of the time....not so much. His new favorite word lately is "NO!" For some reason when he says it, I have to take a deep breath in or I will explode at him. I really do NOT like that word.
I've tried a lot of different techniques to control this or to make him stop. I realize he's 2, but I feel that any age can be disciplined. I've tried time-outs every time he says it to me. I've tried spanking every time he says it...that one he does not like but still says it. I've tried reasoning/talking to him about why he shouldn't say that. And my last method before I scream at him....is ignoring it all together. It's very hard. But this method I think is working the best. When he throws fits and says "No", I turn up the music and ignore it. He gets upset that he's not getting attention and stops. The "No's" have decreased and my stress level is decreasing.
Teigen is awesome but the tempertantroms are not! He acts up more when dad is at work, which is almost every day of the week lately. We saw him 2 days last week and we'll see him 3 days this week. It's sad and I feel so distant with Justin lately but he's been picking up overtime and trades so that when the baby comes, he'll be able to take off a few weeks which will be awesome (since the Doctor and Justin both want to pursue another c-section). He's my best friend and always thinks about us. Thank you babe! We love you!
6 comments:
Our babies love to push our buttons don't they! They teach us patience and understanding even when we think we have it under control!
Oh, yes, good comment Susan! Ashley I wish you could remember you pushing my buttons. And ah, yes, you were so much better for your daddy too, afterall I did for you, hummmm! But just look at the wonderful mother you've become and great teacher for Teigenboy. He's very lucky. Hugs and Kisses...momt
P.S. Grandma had pure grey hair in high school, honey you've been out of high school for many years and you only have a few grey hairs. Your Auntie Gayle is so bugged too, and she is barely, barely frosted with some and she's nearing mid 50's. Not to worry, little one!
Hey I feel your pain I have a lot of grey hair my hairstylist just can't get over it. When I go get my hair highlighted we do two colors brown and then highlights because on me - it no longer looks like highlights :( It runs in the family gotta luv it :)
oh and by the way, I am going through the same thing with Antwan. Antwan will be two in August... timeouts somewhat work as he sees his older brothers in time out every now and then :) good luck I know it is exhausting but worth it!
Love ya
Tam
That is the clearest word out Mique's mouth and I tell it is said with attitude. I think it bugs Grant more than me...fourth kid and I am used to the no's, but the uh huhs are very cute. And good that Justin will try and get a couple of weeks off. So c-section now, what caused the change in your dr's attitude? How do you feel about it all?
Great catchhing up on your blog. Teigen buddy is quite the character and I know he knows it. One thing that you can count on is that no matter what he does to push your buttons, he will always love and cherish his Mom. Its just the way it is. You and Justin are doing a wonderful job. Love Dad T.
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